Is It Polyamory?
I spoke to a cucky who told me he initially gave his wife a book on polyamory after reading my advice in my Niteflirt Goody: Turn your Wife or GF into a Cuckoldress. He told her that he would not have a problem if she chose to have polyamorous sexual or romantic relationships with other men and women. His wife told him she was familiar with the concept of polyamory, she had seen it featured on a tv show. And she told him she felt it was “cheating”. So, he followed my advice and began having less and less sex with her including feigning erectile dysfunction, being too stressed from work to be interested in sex, even pretending to be too tired to perform oral sex on her. I told him this would drive his wife beyond horny and coerce her to have sex outside the marriage. Eventually, he sensed she might be pursuing relationships outside of their marriage. But he didn’t ask, because he wanted her to have the freedom to pursue these liaisons without seeming like his questions were an interrogation. The entire time he thought she was possibly seeing others, he became hornier and jacked off to the fantasies of her being with other men and women. One night, out of the blue, she revealed that she had been having sex with another man and even had lesbian sex once. She didn’t reveal too many details. The cucky hubby confessed to me, at that point, he was excruciatingly hungry for cuckolding to fuel his fantasies. Nevertheless, he realized his desire to know all of the details was somewhat selfish to his masturbation. He hopes she will eventually reveal her hotwife sexual adventures and I told him to be patient and to encourage open communications.
Cuckold Husband, Polyamorous Wife
In retrospect, he recognized that he needed his wife to pursue what she perceived to be the polyamorous lifestyle and not the cuckold lifestyle as she would have found cuckolding too radical and shocking. Essentially, he steered her to cuckold him using polyamory as the front. In any relationship there are different realities, his and hers. He feels like a cuckold husband and she feels like she is poly. She doesn’t perceive she is cucking him, he feels like a cuck. As long as the marriage is working, no matter what the perceptions are, it’s probably all that matters. If you want to confess your cuckold lifestyle details, call me for Cuckold Phone Sex!